Romantic relationships are not strange anymore. When two people decide to bond in a relationship, they knit love and create warm moments of togetherness.
But sometimes the romantic story can run aground, even when it is at a serious level. This can be caused by several factors, such as differences in vision and mission, way of thinking, life goals, and many more.
However, have you ever found your partner persevering despite facing many differences and incompatibilities with you? The four reasons below could be the cause, you know. Come on, watch!
1. Feel very attached to you.
Maybe he already feels very attached to you. That you are his and you are the one who suits him the most. There are too many good memories that you shared together.
So, he also feels the problems that come to your relationship are not commensurate with the good memories you have made. In principle, he ignored the bad and stuck with the good.
2. The family has mutually agreed.
Family is also a major factor in a relationship, you know. He is lazy to find other families to make new connections.
Not only does he fit in with you, he also feels comfortable in your family environment.
The family who accepts each other will create a sense of home for him. When will you get the green light from both parties?
3. Not ready to accept the possibilities after breaking up.
The condition after breaking up is a factor why he prefers to stay with you. Fear of not finding something better, fear of prolonged hurt feelings, fear of being the subject of other people's conversation, and other fears.
Ending a relationship is not an easy matter. Even if you get a replacement, it doesn't mean that your feelings will completely transfer to a new person. Instead of failing to move on, it's better to be loyal!
4. The Worst Thing, Your Relationship is Already in the Toxic Zone
It's dangerous if your relationship is already in the toxic zone. He is dependent and cannot be separated from you. Usually it starts with excessive attention and sacrifice every time you and him conflict.
The he will do whatever it takes to keep you afloat, even though the relationship cannot be continued. No longer loyal, but an obsession, here.
How? Have you found a reason why he can be loyal? Come on, try to feel his movements and find out why he is still holding out for you.
Eitsss, if you are already in the toxic zone, it feels like your relationship needs to be reviewed, right? Making time for each other and self-correcting will be better for your future relationship.